🎙️ EPISODE 5: I DO… BUT HE COULDN’T

In this episode of Red Flags and Green Cards, I confront Roger about my missing gold jewellery—and let’s just say his answers were as weak as his… performance.

We take it back to the wedding: the day I said “I do” while ignoring every gut feeling screaming “girl, don’t.” From awkward energy to fake smiles, I break down what really went down behind the dress and the drama.

And then? We talk about the bedroom. Or rather… the lack of action. Because not only was there no honeymoon glow, but he literally couldn’t finish. At all.

Get ready for wedding bells, missing jewels, and the kind of tea you can't sip quietly.

🛑 Content Warning: This episode may include discussions of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please listen with care. If these topics are difficult for you, feel free to skip this episode or take breaks as needed. Your well-being comes first.

🧠 Mental Health Reminder: These stories are told with humour, but the impact was real. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please know you're not alone. Talk to someone you trust, or reach out for support — your mental health matters.

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🎙️ EPISODE 4: CONFRONTATIONS AND COUCH SURFERS

In this episode of Red Flags and Green Cards, things get real messy, real fast. The rumours about Roger’s sexuality hit a boiling point when a group of teenage boys starts crashing at our place—uninvited and unbothered. I finally confront him, and let’s just say… the responses were as shady as the company he kept. Oh, and did I mention my gold jewellery suddenly disappeared?

Grab your tea and your headphones—this one’s a ride. 🎙️✨

🛑 Content Warning: This episode may include discussions of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please listen with care. If these topics are difficult for you, feel free to skip this episode or take breaks as needed. Your well-being comes first.

🧠 Mental Health Reminder: These stories are told with humour, but the impact was real. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please know you're not alone. Talk to someone you trust, or reach out for support — your mental health matters.

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Talk Suicide Canada (24/7): 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645

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Episode 3: When the Closet Creaks OpenThe whispers start, and so do the doubts.

In this episode of Red Flags and Green Cards, I’m back from Jamaica, newly engaged, and deep into wedding planning—until the vibe shifts. Suddenly, people around me aren’t just raising their eyebrows… they’re raising real concerns.

Was my fiancé actually into me—or was I just part of his immigration strategy and his cover story?

From my mom’s side-eyes to full-on “sis, are you sure?” moments, I break down the start of a storm I didn’t see coming. Let’s talk rumour mills, denial, and the first cracks in the fairytale.

🎧 Listen now for:• The first red flags people warned me about• How I reacted when folks questioned Roger’s sexuality• What I noticed—but ignored• And the moment that changed everything

🛑 Content Warning: This episode may include discussions of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please listen with care. If these topics are difficult for you, feel free to skip this episode or take breaks as needed. Your well-being comes first.

🧠 Mental Health Reminder: These stories are told with humour, but the impact was real. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please know you're not alone. Talk to someone you trust, or reach out for support — your mental health matters.

📍Support Resources (Canada):

Kids Help Phone (24/7, for all ages): Call or text 1-800-668-6868 or visit kidshelpphone.ca

Talk Suicide Canada (24/7): 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645

ShelterSafe.ca – Find shelters for women experiencing abuse: sheltersafe.ca

Wellness Together Canada – Free mental health support: wellnesstogether.ca

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🎙️ EPISODE 2: RING OF FIRE

In this episode, I sharee the whirlwind moment that should’ve felt magical — getting engaged — but instead sparked more confusion than celebration.

After a bold (and baffling) Facebook Messenger message, Roger makes things official with a ring. But what should’ve been a happy, intimate milestone becomes a moment filled with tension, doubt, and a gnawing gut feeling that something isn’t right.

With a new ring on her finger and her mother beside her on the flight home, Heather opens up about what it was like to juggle excitement, shame, and silent panic — all while pretending everything was okay.

🎧 In this episode:

The disorienting high of fast-tracked “love”

Trying to convince yourself it’s “meant to be” when your mom’s face says otherwise

The pressure to commit when you’ve already told people you’re in love

That eerie quiet feeling when your intuition whispers, this doesn’t feel like forever

If you’ve ever felt like you were watching your own life from the outside, wishing someone would stop you — or if that someone was your mama — this episode will hit close to home.

🛑 Content Warning: This episode may include discussions of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please listen with care. If these topics are difficult for you, feel free to skip this episode or take breaks as needed. Your well-being comes first.

🧠 Mental Health Reminder: These stories are told with humour, but the impact was real. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please know you're not alone. Talk to someone you trust, or reach out for support — your mental health matters.

📍Support Resources (Canada):

Kids Help Phone (24/7, for all ages): Call or text 1-800-668-6868 or visit kidshelpphone.ca

Talk Suicide Canada (24/7): 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645

ShelterSafe.ca – Find shelters for women experiencing abuse: sheltersafe.ca

Wellness Together Canada – Free mental health support: wellnesstogether.ca

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🎙️ EPISODE 1: JAMAICA ME DELULU

Welcome to the first episode of Red Flags and Green Cards — the podcast inspired by my viral S.O.S. (Story of a Sponsorship) series on TikTok. I’m Heather, and in this episode, we’re going back to where it all began.

🛑 Content Warning: This episode includes discussions of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please listen with care. If these topics are difficult for you, feel free to skip this episode or take breaks as needed. Your well-being comes first.

It’s Friday the 13th — so naturally, I’m talking about the moment I ignored every single red flag and opened the door to what would become a wild, emotionally exhausting, and painfully petty journey of love, lies, and immigration.

🎧 In this episode:

* How it really started (spoiler: not at the airport)

* What I felt in my gut but brushed off

* Why I stayed

If you've ever trusted the wrong person, convinced yourself it wasn’t that bad, or stayed too long in the name of love… this one’s for you.

🧠 Mental Health Reminder: These stories are told with humour, but the impact was real. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please know you're not alone. Talk to someone you trust, or reach out for support — your mental health matters.

📍Support Resources (Canada):

* Kids Help Phone (24/7, for all ages): Call or text 1-800-668-6868 or visit kidshelpphone.ca

* Talk Suicide Canada (24/7): 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645

* ShelterSafe.ca – Find shelters for women experiencing abuse: sheltersafe.ca

* Wellness Together Canada – Free mental health support: wellnesstogether.ca

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I started telling my story on TikTok for fun. 

A little series called SOS: Story of a Sponsorship.

And before I knew it, people were watching me unpack the wildest, most painful, and most ridiculous chapter of my life.

A man I thought I married for love.

Who married me for papers.

The red flags were there; but feelings muddy the waters.

And manipulation? It makes you doubt your gut.

So I made a podcast.

Welcome to Red Flags and Green Cards.

Because if I had to live through the drama, you at least get to binge it.

It’s not just a cautionary tale.

It’s therapy, it’s petty, and it’s your sign to never ignore your gut again.

If you’ve been watching my TikTok series and yelling GIRL NOOOO at your phone— go hit play.

Red Flags and Green Cards is going live, everywhere you listen to podcasts, on Friday the 13th of June, fitting, since this whole marriage was a horror story.

I kept his secrets, until now. Bring snacks. And maybe a lawyer.

DISCLAIMER/TW: Child s*xual abuse, grooming of minors, domestic violence

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