Fake Straight

S1 E10 A Whole Lesbian


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Trigger Warning: This episode of Fake Straight contains discussions about domestic violence, toxic relationships, and emotional abuse. The content may be distressing for some listeners. Please take care of yourself, and if you need support, consider pausing or skipping this episode. Resources and support services are available in the episode notes.


Check out this episode of Fake Straight, where xoxoTanara chops it up with her day one, Quiana, who’s breaking free and finding her truth as a recently out lesbian after 22 years of marriage to a man. Quiana keeps it real about the ups and downs of her coming-out journey, the messy drama of her past relationships (catfishing, toxic vibes, and all), and what it’s like to navigate love on the other side. xoxoTanara and Quiana also spill the tea on dating younger vs. older women, family reactions, and why good communication is everything when you’re trying to make it work in a queer relationship. Grab a seat; this convo gets deep!



National Resources (USA):

  1. The National Domestic Violence Hotline

    • Website: ⁠thehotline.org⁠
    • Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
    • Text: Text "START" to 88788
    • Offers 24/7 support, including chat options, and provides resources for individuals in abusive relationships, including those in LGBTQ+ communities.
    • The Trevor Project

      • Website: ⁠thetrevorproject.org⁠
      • Phone: 1-866-488-7386
      • Text: Text "START" to 678678
      • Focused on crisis intervention and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth, but also offers resources and support for those facing relationship abuse.
      • Love is Respect

        • Website: ⁠loveisrespect.org⁠
        • Phone: 1-866-331-9474
        • Text: Text "LOVEIS" to 22522
        • Provides information and support on healthy relationships and dating abuse, including tailored resources for LGBTQ+ relationships.
        • The Anti-Violence Project (AVP)

          • Website: ⁠avp.org⁠
          • Phone: 1-212-714-1141
          • Specializes in providing support for LGBTQ+ individuals experiencing domestic violence, sexual assault, and other forms of violence. Offers a 24/7 bilingual hotline.
          • GLBT National Help Center

            • Website: ⁠glbthotline.org⁠
            • Phone: 1-888-843-4564
            • Provides free and confidential support for LGBTQ+ individuals, including those facing domestic violence.
              • Your local LGBTQ+ community center may also have specialized resources or can direct you to local services tailored to LGBTQ+ individuals facing domestic violence.
              • State coalitions against domestic violence often have specific programs or partnerships with LGBTQ+ organizations.
                • Forge Forward

                  • Website: ⁠forge-forward.org⁠
                  • Offers resources for transgender and gender non-conforming survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault.
                  • Trans Lifeline

                    • Website: ⁠translifeline.org⁠
                    • Phone: 1-877-565-8860
                    • A peer support hotline run by and for trans people, providing resources and support for those experiencing abuse.
                    • These resources can offer immediate help, counseling, legal advice, and more. It's crucial for anyone experiencing abuse to seek support from professionals who understand their specific needs.

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