Season 1 Episode 3: Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): Autism by Any Other Name

In this episode, we explore Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), a term describing behavior, primarily occurring in children with autism, who exhibit extreme resistance to everyday demands. We provide a comprehensive overview of PDA, its presentation, diagnosis, and debated etiology. Despite PDA not being an official diagnosis in the U.S. and only a proposed profile in the U.K., its legitimacy is growing within autism communities. Through discussing both successful and ineffective parenting styles for PDA, we offer practical advice and techniques such as the antecedent behavior consequence (ABC) model. We emphasize the importance of safety during meltdowns, dealing with long-term challenges, and setting sustainable routines. We also stress the value of various types of support and the necessity of continual adaptation and realistic goal-setting tailored to each unique family dynamic. 

00:00 Introduction to Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) 

01:15 Understanding PDA: Definition and Background 

02:48 Debates and Questions Surrounding PDA 

03:40 The Role of Diagnosis in PDA 

05:57 Effective PDA Parenting Strategies 

08:04 Practical Tips for Managing PDA Behaviors 

16:19 Long-Term Strategies and Considerations 

17:35 Final Thoughts and Resources