In this episode I interview one of my longtime best friends on secret sex. Carrie wonders how many of us are having great sex with people we are ashamed to admit to our friends? In this episode we discuss:

• Is secret sex the ultimate form of intimacy or a way we deny feelings and compartmentalize lives
• Have you ever been the cheese girl
• Introducing people to your friends
• What makes for strong friendships
• Going through people's stuff
• Fetishes and pleasing your partner
• Sex on a first date