and I wondered...

We have a relationship without sex and sex without a relationship, which had a better shot at survival?

Topics include

• Sex without emotions
• Taking a friend’s partner seriously
• Is less sex a bad sign in a relationship
• How SATC handled a topic versus the reboot

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“The more words we invent the harder it becomes to define things. In a world where you can date without sex screw without dating and in the end keep most of your sex partners as friends long after the screwing is over, what really defines a relationship?”

Topics include: 

• Being friends with an ex (and the 100 nuances that come with it)
• Boundaries - how comfortable is too comfortable too soon
• DTR - DEFINING THE RELATIONSHIP (including lines you can steal to find out about your situationship)

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For Season 4 Episode 2 “The Real Me” I spoke with Kornelija Slunjski also known as Koko and Your Boujee Best Friend for Carrie’s question:

“Why is it that we can see our friends perfectly but when it comes to ourselves no matter how hard we look do we ever see ourselves clearly?”

Topics include: 

• Trying to be someone we’re not
• Lowering standards because no one can meet them
• How your self-awareness is impacting your confidence
• Understanding who to accept criticism from
• High maintenance versus narcissism versus confidence
• Why do we have trouble seeing ourselves

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Welcome back! We are kicking off Season 4 Episode 1, “The Agony and the ‘Ex’-tacy,” talking all things soulmates with one of my own soulmates, Bridesmaid for Hire Jen Glantz! Carrie’s question of the episode and all the topics we dive into:

 If you love someone and it didn’t work out, does that mean they weren’t your soulmate? And as you move from age box to box and the contestants get fewer and fewer, are your chances of finding your soulmate less and less? Soulmates, reality or torture device?

• Being in a relationship is the least interesting thing about you
• Why you shouldn’t feel bad for not doing what everyone else is doing
• WHY are you getting married?
• Soulmates - from lovers to friends and pets
• 30 & the decade of decisions

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Hope you enjoyed Season 3! Stay tuned for Season 4 coming to you in 2022!

For Season 3 Episode 18 “Cock-a-doodle-doo” I spoke with Lori Hardacker Author of Dating, What The F*ck?”Carrie’s question:

“What if everything isn’t the man’s fault? After a certain age and a certain number of relationships and it still isn’t working and the exes seem to be moving on and we don’t, perhaps the problem isn’t the last boyfriend or the one before him or even the one before him, could it be that the problem isn’t them, is it us?”

Topics include: 

• How men vs women process
• Setting expectations for what you need
• The role emotions play for men vs women
• Differences in communication styles
• How to make a decision

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For Season 3 Episode 17 “What Goes Around Comes Around” I chatted with David Chambers, a dating coach and host of The Authentic Man Podcast on self-sabotage and relationship karma for Carrie’s question:

“I wondered does a string of bad dates equal one good one? And will treating someone badly in one relationship ensure you’ll be treated badly in the next? Does everything that goes around really come back around? And if so, will it come around to bite you in the ass? Is there such a thing as relationship karma?”

Topics include: 

• Why we self-sabotage
• How to identify self-sabotage
• If you are actually the problem
• How your past shapes your present
• Coincidence or the universe sending a sign

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In this episode, I connected with Caroline Brown of The Crazy Over 40s Life Podcast to wonder over Carrie’s question,

“If you stay single long enough you’re supposed to get wiser about dating - what men to pick, where to meet them. But what really made any of us experts? Wasn’t our single status a neon sign that we couldn’t get it right? What if all these years in New York have only made us older, more confused or dead?  Are we getting wiser or just older?”

Topics include: 

• Why we really want men with money
• How men look at you differently once you’re married
• Does dating get easier or harder with getting older and wiser
• Friendship

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For Season 3 Episode 15 “Hot Child in the City” I chatted with Kendra of the Crushgasm podcast on middle school insecurities and age appropriateness while wondering:

“In today’s youth-obsessed culture are the women of my generation growing into mature responsible adults, or are we 34 going on 13?” 

Topics include: 

• What makes you an adult
• Kids these days
• Why the SATC characters make us feel immature
• Nostalgia having a moment

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For Season 3 Episode 14 “Sex and Another City,” I connected with Disha of the podcast But What Will People Say Podcast to talk about FAKES. And social media. Because it’s really relevant for Carrie’s question: 

“When it comes to bags, men and cities, is it really what’s outside that counts?”

Topics include: 

• The dangers of social media
• Judging a book by its cover
• Portraying a life we don’t have
• Validating your relationship online

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