Real Talk w/Ramesha Nicole

S.1 Ep. 4 Get Real. Be Free.: The Effects of Unresolved Grief


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   Grief! It’s one of those topics that many of us think only applies to death, but did you know that grief is also related to debt freedom?

In this episode, Ramesha Nicole sits down with the Chief Grief Crusader Herdyne Mercier who believes that both happiness and sadness can go together. She’s on a mission to making Grief sexy

She believes that unresolved grief keeps you from purposeful living that becomes a distraction in your life, even in how you manage your financial debt.

Episode Take-Aways:

In the midst of chaos, you still have purpose and are accountable to God.-Herdyne Mercier

Unresolved grief can become a distraction.-Herdyne Mercier

You’ve already come into this life with your purpose. You just need to be willing to dig deep.-Herdyne Mercier

We have to grieve the idea of perfection because it is this idea that is robbing us of a quality of life.”-Herdyne Mercier

“We are not learning from other people’s death.”-Herdyne Mercier

“When you seek wisdom, you find your purpose”-Herdyne Mercier

What would the TRUTH Really mean??Dealing with the TRUTH is hard.

“All you have to do is accept the calling and God will send the people.”-Herdyne Mercier

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It’s ok to be sad. It’s ok to be hurt. Sit in it.-Herdyne Mercier

Grief is power.”-Herdyne Mercier

“Too many of us are too busy being cute on the outside that we’re not cute on the inside.”-Herdyne Mercier

“Secure the bag on the inside so that you can secure the bag on the outside.”-Herdyne Mercier

“Unresolved grief causes flare ups.”-Herdyne Mercier

“In the midst of chaos, there is purpose.”-Herdyne Mercier

You stop running from your internal debt into your internal transformation.”-Herdyne Mercier

“Grief will have you acting a fool in these streets.”-Herdyne Mercier

“You take you with you. Whatever you don’t deal with will keep following you.” -Ramesha Nicole

The next step to walking in Freedom through grief:

  1. Define grief. What is grief to you?
  2. Get in the right community
  3. Seek help
  4. Truth for Freedom Questions

    1. What does it mean to truly get real and experience freedom: Taking a look in the mirror and through your eyes seeing your soul and doing a soul check.
    2. My name is Herdyne Mercier and the truth about debt is that it will linger and linger and go to the next generation until you deal with your unresolved debt.

    3. To learn more about Redefining Grief: http://herdynemercier.com

      To learn more about The Couples Counsel podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-couples-counsel-with-dr-jameson-mercier-lcsw/id1435988456

      To connect with Herdyne on Social Media

      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/herdynemercier/



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      Remember: "You shall know the TRUTH and the TRUTH shall set you FREE!"-John 8:32

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