Real Talk w/Ramesha Nicole

S.1 Ep. 5 Beauty for Ashes feat. LaToya Mathews


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Have you ever put something in the back of your mind that you just didn’t want to deal with? Have you ever found yourself constantly running until you got to  a place where you couldn’t run anymore where your back was stacked up against the wall with nowhere to turn to or nowhere to hide?

That’s exactly what happened to LaToya Matthews when a secret from her past, caused her to open the closet on what she had been holding onto for over 8 years.

During a book study, Latoya was able to open up about her hidden secret and begin to free herself of what had been keeping her in debt not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually.

After it was all said and done, she was able to let go of the internal weights and begin to truly experience BEAUTY FOR HER ASHES.

Take-Aways:

“When you don’t get your inner healing, you put yourself in debt to others and their opinion.”-LaToya Mathews

“When you get inner healing, you don’t depend on people to give you that validation you are looking for.”-LaToya Mathews

“When you don’t have that inner healing, it begins to show up in your lifestyle.”-LaToya Mathews

“We like to ask questions, but we don’t always like the answer when we ask God. You have to play your part.”-LaToya Mathews

“It starts from the inside out. We’re constantly trying to work from the outside in, but it starts inside.”-LaToya Mathews

“People think they know us, but often times they don’t know what we’re dealing with on the inside.”-LaToya Mathews

“God won’t give you grace to be someone else.”-Latoya Mathews

“The more you share your story, the more you release.”-LaToya Mathews

“You may not be where you want to be, but right NOW is where you need to be.”-LaToya Mathews

“In order for people to see you, you have to first see yourself.”-LaToya Mathews

“Nothing is wasted.”-Ramesha Nicole

To experience inner healing for your freedom:

  1. You have to want to become well. People cannot save you, you have to learn to save yourself. Are you committed or are you just interested? Commitment takes accountability.
  2. Have the fight! Don’t look at yourself as someone that’s weak. Have the tenacity to keep going. Surround yourself with people who love you and who care.
  3. Have hope. Shift your perspective that things will get getter.
  4. Truth for Freedom Questions:

    1. What does it mean to really get real to experience freedom?-“Be honest with yourself.”
    2. My name is LaToya and the truth about debt is that it’s forgivable.
    3. To connect with LaToya on social media:

      FB @TheLaToyaMathews

      IG @TheLaToyaMathews

      To read the book that Latoya mentioned:

      https://www.amazon.com/True-Measure-Woman-Discover-intrinsic/dp/1599791501


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