Jessica is 40 and wants to be married. At 37, she rediscovered The Rules and has been using them religiously. Jessica states that for the last 3 years she has gone on a minimum of 3 to 5 dates a week with only two 6 month relationships that were "the healthiest" she's ever had, but were unsatisfying. Paula helps Jessica discover how strict use of The Rules has actually hindered her progress towards marriage and how she can more authentically align with her real self while still using the method.