After years of dating in a way that she describes as “needy or clingy,” 36-yr-old Julia found The Rules in 2015 and began following them strictly. Now, after 4 years of not experiencing her desired result of marriage, Julia fears "never getting the right guy" and that she might go through her life without ever having children. She is tired of being consumed by men telling her that her communication is “odd” and that they think she is “just a good-time girl,” when she knows herself to be a woman who desires monogamy, commitment, and family life. Paula helps Julia discover that what she is attempting to show men by doing The Rules is exactly the opposite of their experience in dating her.