34 yr-old Sara wants children, so she has a goal of getting engaged and married within two years. However, Sara seriously doubts her abilities when it comes to dating. By explaining to Paula about her last relationship of nearly three years, Sara discovers the importance of being mindful from the moment of meeting a man. On Episode 76, listen for how not making choices early-on in a relationship can be the cause of heartbreak, as well as the lingering self-doubt that is ultimately more serious.