In this episode of Joy Recovery Radio, we dive deep into the concept of DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) and its impact on betrayal recovery. This is part two of a two-part series where we explore the specific trauma injuries caused by DARVO, how it functions as integrity abuse, and the steps for real-time accountability. We provide a simulated example of a DARVO conversation and discuss ways betrayed partners can maintain their reality and emotional regulation. For those recognizing these patterns in themselves, awareness and accountability are key steps towards real recovery. Join us for this essential conversation on ending deception and supporting autonomous informed choice. For more resources, visit joy-recovery.com.

 

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:35 Understanding DARVO and Its Impact

01:41 Specific Trauma Injuries from DARVO

04:45 Simulation of a DARVO Scenario

08:19 Reflecting on the Simulation

09:33 Demonstrating Integrity in Conversations

12:54 Empowering Betrayed Partners

19:57 Encouragement for Men and Recognizing DARVO

23:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 

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