Why Betrayal is Not a Relationship Problem | Joy Recovery Radio

In this episode of Joy Recovery Radio, we delve into the intricate nature of betrayal, emphasizing that betrayal is fundamentally an integrity issue with relational consequences—not a relationship problem. We dissect common misconceptions in betrayal recovery, focusing on the importance of addressing power imbalances, manipulated reality, and misplaced responsibility for healing. Through the lens of integrity, accountability, and trauma-informed care, we explain the critical distinction between insight and accountability and introduce the 'three I’s'—Integrity, Impact, and Integration—necessary for true recovery. Learn why undertaking relational work prematurely can exacerbate trauma and discover how to pave the way for genuine healing. Join us at Joy Recovery Academy for further educational resources on navigating betrayal trauma. Tune in and find clarity, safety, and integrity in your recovery journey.

00:00 Introduction to Joy Recovery Radio

00:32 Misdiagnosing Betrayal as a Relationship Problem

03:29 The Three Core Assumptions in Relationship Models

05:33 The Impact of Betrayal on the Betrayed Partner

09:04 The Importance of Integrity in Recovery

09:12 Introducing the Joy Recovery Academy

10:03 Understanding Intentional Manipulated Reality (IMR)

14:33 The Role of Accountability in Healing

16:54 The Three I's of Recovery: Integrity, Impact, and Integration

22:31 Final Thoughts and Summary