How do you reply when someone is mean? What's the confident way to handle rude comments? If you have a question please email [email protected] and I'll respond in an episode. When you have an encounter with someone rude or intentionally nasty, there's a few ways to emotionally protect yourself while still responding to the situation. Listen to this episode to hear how I handle these scenarios with grace...because I used to have a rude, nasty side of me that came from insecurity. It wasn't cute, guys! Thankfully, that's been mostly worked out of me, but I still have moments where I really want to give people truth without love.