Forgiveness after betrayal can be one of the hardest parts of healing — not because you’re doing it wrong, but because real forgiveness is far more complex than “forgive and forget.” In this episode, I gently unpack the truth about forgiveness, the myths that keep us stuck, and how you can begin releasing the weight of what happened without excusing it, reconciling, or rushing your own healing.

If you’ve ever wondered why forgiveness feels so hard… why the pain resurfaces even after you think you’ve moved on…or whether forgiving someone means you’re saying what they did was “okay”… This episode will bring grounding, clarity, and compassion to your process.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• What forgiveness really is
• What forgiveness is NOT
• Why forgiveness after betrayal feels so messy and layered
• The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation
• How holding onto resentment affects your body
• Five gentle ways to begin the forgiveness process
• My personal experience with forgiveness after betrayal

And why choosing healing opened the door to love, trust, and joy again.

Key Takeaways

• Forgiveness isn’t weakness — it’s a choice to protect your own peace.
• You can forgive someone without restoring the relationship.
• Healing is layered, and forgiveness often returns in waves.
• You don’t have to force forgiveness. You can walk toward it gently.
• You deserve a future that isn’t defined by someone else’s choices.

If This Episode Spoke to You…

Share it with someone who needs encouragement or clarity around forgiveness.

And remember—your story isn’t over. There is hope, healing, and a beautiful life ahead.

If your world feels cracked wide open right now, know this: you are not alone, and you do not have to have it all figured out today. Listen in, take a breath, and let this be your first step toward loving your real life again.

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Bio

I specialize in supporting women who have experienced infidelity and are ready to reclaim their power, rebuild trust in themselves, and create a life they truly love.

As a holistic nurse and wellness coach, I weave together mindful nutrition, movement, mindset work, and nervous system regulation to help women reconnect with their bodies and their inner strength.

While my heart is in guiding women through the healing process after betrayal, I also work with clients on a wide range of wellness goals—helping them create sustainable routines and habits that align with their values and vision for a thriving life.

For those interested, I offer InBody scanning to measure body composition (muscle, fat, and water). This tool provides a clear snapshot of physical health, helping to guide balanced nutrition, intentional movement, and overall well-being.

Outside of my work, I’m married to my soulmate, Seth, and I’m blessed to be a mom, stepmom, grandma, and mother-in-law. Family time is at the top of my list. I also have amazing friends and get together regularly with them, supper club, book club, backpacking & hiking, daily walks, yoga, reading, traveling to exciting places, creative projects, and organizing spaces to create a cozy, welcoming home.

***Making any lifestyle changes is from my own experience and/or other clients personal experiences and may not be suited for you. It is strongly recommended that you consult with your health professional before making changes in your own life. By engaging in anything that I talk about, you agree that you do so at your own risk.

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