In this episode, we’ll be exploring what people are surprised by when they explore BDSM. Many people are surprised at the exploration they do into BDSM because they think it’s all about whips, chaings, and/or kinky sex. In reality, BDSM can be a fun and thrilling experience that focuses on consent, communication, and other forms of expression. We’ll discuss why people might be initially surprised by BDSM, and then talk through some of the unexpected revelations that commonly occur as people step outside the box of vanilla to explore their kinks and how it can be an incredibly rewarding intimate exploration. So welcome to the lifestyle’s kinktastic surprise party.