In this episode, we will be discussing the delicate topic of talking to a vanilla person or partner about BDSM. For those who are unfamiliar with the term, a vanilla person is someone who does not have any experience with BDSM or BDSM-related activities. Perhaps we have all had an experience where we met someone new to us, amazing, yet we needed to discover if they were kinky, kinky friendly, or open to things kinktastic but it can be a challenging conversation plus others have an existing amazing partner but would like to add the lifestyle to their relationships. Here we will discuss the best ways to approach this kind of conversation, as well as the potential pitfalls to avoid.