One week after their first online meeting, 42-yr-old Diamond met 41-yr-old Dan at a hotel. Yada, yada, yada, and four years later, Dan has only taken Diamond on one date, never introduced her to his children, and he has never given her his address.  Despite the red flags that Dan is married or partnered, Diamond has hope for more.  On this episode, Paula gives Diamond the approach that will work to have Dan coming towards her, but cautions Diamond to be careful about what she wishes for.