After 20 years in an abusive marriage, 42-yr-old Cara was happy to hit it off with 45-yr-old Justin.  After 3 months, Cara wanted Justin’s confirmation that the two were being sexually exclusive, but Justin started pulling back. This triggered Cara’s fears around lacking boundaries and oversharing. On this episode, Paula helps Cara make sense of her own mixed emotions, as well as the mixed signals sent by Justin.