Is this a win for your child… or for you?

What does “successful parenting” really mean today? In this episode, we’re joined by Daphne Iking and Scott’s to talk about how we measure our kids’ progress, why we compare milestones (even when we don’t mean to), and how to check ourselves before our expectations take over.

Are we really supporting our kids—or just projecting? Let’s get honest about what it means to celebrate every win, big or small.Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

CHAPTERS

00:25 - Welcome Daphne!

01:50 - It’s okay to forget your kid’s ages

07:00 - The preschool guilt on moms 

08:40 - What defines “successful parenting”? 

10:20 - The education milestones

13:00 - Too early for extra tuition?

14:30 - Fair treatment between siblings 

16:30 - Forcing milestones on the eldest

22:00 - Are hand-me-downs unfair? 

25:50 - Judging childhood achievements 

28:20 - Is studying overseas the standard? 

29:30 - Academic standards on your kids 

32:30 - Comparing early childhood development 

35:30 - Placing healthy expectations

37:30 - Are iPads kids trying to bond? 

41:40 - Going against our parent’s dreams 

46:00 - Fostering values over careers

50:40 - What is a successful kid?  

54:15 - You are what you sow 

55:15 - Join us on Telegram! 

55:36 - Tutorial: How To Carry Babies