Mya and Dakota continue their Survivor’s Guide to Reclaiming Your Sex Life by shifting to a candid conversation about the Orgasm Gap and why it’s still very real for straight women today. While there are many factors behind it, they explain that the biggest reasons still come down to a lack of sex education, media and culture influencing modern sexual expectations, discomfort around talking about sex, and the fact that many women have simply become used to the imbalance and treat it as the expectation.

They also point out a few key barriers that keep the pleasure gap in place: the dangers of faking orgasms (which reinforces behaviors that aren’t actually pleasurable), the lack of open conversations about sex with friends and partners, and the expectation that women should figure everything out themselves. Mya and Dakota emphasize that while exploring your own body can build confidence and help communicate what feels good, men also need to educate themselves and take responsibility for understanding female pleasure!

The Female Orgasm Guide

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