While only together for 2 years, 32-yr-old Ruby and 32-yr-old Paul are on their 4th breakup.  Ruby says Paul is heavily influenced by his friends and family, doesn’t make her a priority, and isn’t mature enough for marriage. On this episode, Paula helps Ruby reframe Paul’s behavior, reset her focus to solve the real issues, and see a future where the two can restart a new and committed relationship that will remain unbroken.