You know how we sometimes dissect our night out on the way home from an event — you think about things you said, what others said, what you would do differently. That's what it feels like I've been doing after living abroad for two months — looking back and wondering if things are as bad as I thought they were, and if we made the right move.

This can't be covered in one episode but let's explore how things are currently looking from here.

Mentioned or related to this episode:

• ACLU: Mapping Attacks on LGBTQ Rights in U.S. State Legislatures in 2025
• NBC News: Texas to Become 20th State with Transgender Bathroom Law
• Lambda Legal: Identiy Document Guidance for Transgender, Nonbinary, Gender-Noncomforming, and Intersex People
• TransLash: Trans Relocation Guide -- Finding Trans Aslyum and Safe Havens
• Erin in the Morning: Countries Should Accept Transgender Refugees from the U.S.

Information for allies:

• PFLAG Guide to Being a Trans Ally(PDF)
• GLAAD Tips for Allies of Transgender People
• Advocates for Transgender Equality ally guide
• Human Rights Campaign ally guide

Places to look for therapy and professional support:

• Psychology Today
• Coaching for Cis & Straight Partners of Transgender, Gender Diverse, and LGBTQ+ Folx

More transgender families:

• YouTube Channel: Great Scotts
• YouTube Channel: Jammidodger
• TikTok: TransitionTogether
• The Cut: My Husband is Now my Wife: Trans Women's Wives on Their Own Dramatic Transformations
• Chicago Tribune: Suburban Wife Loves the Person, Not the Gender, After Spouse Comes out as Woman

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Get in touch, I'm happy to hear from you or answer questions.

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