Three months into dating 39-yr-old Coco, 36-yr-old Steven’s mother was diagnosed with Cancer, his grandpa went on hospice, and he got laid off.  Despite being in therapy and the fact that the adverse life circumstances were not permanent they were too much for Steven, and he broke things off. Being told “it’s not you, it’s me,” Coco decided she should nurture Steven through the tough times by being there for him. On this episode, Paula gives Coco the low-down on the probability of low contact working for the long run.