After only a few months of dating, 44-yr-old Fred started spending every night with 52-yr-old Sariah, and expressed interest in living together. Despite telling Fred that she required engagement to do so, on their one-yr anniversary, Fred told Sariah that he wasn’t ready for marriage and didn’t want to be engaged.  On this episode, Paula helps Sariah make sense of what Sariah deemed as Fred’s retraction, understand where she needs to place her focus, and learn what she needs to do and say to move Fred toward committed cohabitation.