51-yr-old, divorced mom, Sandy, was engaged to 52-yr-old Eric.  But just 4 days before their wedding, Eric canceled the wedding, stating that he wanted to date others. Broken-hearted, Sandy went back online and met 57-yr-old Ryan.  Sandy is torn, however, as she still has feelings for Eric and has allowed him back into her life. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, Paula helps Sandy understand the need to create and keep the boundaries necessary for either of her men to commit, and why it’s not the when of letting a man back-in, as much as it is the how that determines a man’s level of investment in a relationship.