Ever wondered who ensures those steamy (or awkward) on-screen moments don’t turn into a total nightmare for actors? Meet Rayann, an intimacy coordinator, director, and casting pro with 25 years in the arts, who's on a mission to change how Singapore and Southeast Asia handle intimacy on screen.

From tackling cultural taboos to applying consent and boundaries beyond film, think relationships, parenting, even the workplace, Rayann breaks it all down. If you've ever cringed at a badly done love scene or wondered how to teach kids about personal space without making it weird, this one's for you.

Tune in, because intimacy isn’t just about romance, it’s about how we connect with everyone.

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Chapters: 

0:00 Start of Episode

01:41 Introduction of Ryann Condy

01:57 Joanne’s First Intimacy Experience

03:06 What is an Intimacy Coordinator?

03:39  Intimacy Coordination in America vs. SEA

08:11 The Me Too Movement 

09:07  Ryann’s Process as an Intimacy Coordinator

13:33 What is the Fear of Power on Set?

15:54 When Does an Intimacy Coordinator Come In?18:15 How Does Consent Work?

20:03 Intimacy Call 

21:15 What Actors Think Before Doing Intimate Scenes

23:08 Intimacy Kits 

25:22 How Are Intimate Scenes Made Realistic?

27:20 Intimate Scenes Throughout the Years

28:45 Crew’s Involvement in Intimate Scenes

31:37 What are Boundaries? What is Okay Cross?

33:00 How to Identify Your Boundaries

35:56 How to Articulate Your Boundaries 

41:12 How to Teach Kids Articulating Their Boundaries

44:51 How We Should  Respond To Other People’s Boundaries

45:32 Consent & Boundaries in the Corporate Space

53:27 How Do You Process A Boundary That’s Been Crossed?

55:01 Does It Help to Confront Your Perpetrator?

56:24 Communicating Boundaries Effectively

58:08 Farewells

01:00:36 End of Episode