46-yr-old Blake is in an on-again, off-again relationship with 60 yr-old Carlos, who has been separated for the last 10 years.  A year ago, when Carlos broke things off because Blake wanted more commitment, the two remained friends, taking weekly walks together and talking on the phone. Blake has since seen the error in this approach and comes on Make Him Wonder to better understand why no-contact works with men, how to initiate it, and what to do when she runs into Carlos next.