About 3 years following the loss of her husband, 55-yr-old Kitt reconnected with 53-yr-old Shaun, who she had known in HS.  But Shaun was not ready or willing to commit to a serious relationship and went silent, leaving Kitt wondering what had happened.  Since then, Kitt met 56-yr-old Mike, and all seemed to be going well.  But on the heels of the death of her husband, the recent death of her mother, and Shaun leaving without a word, Kitt is finding it hard to trust again. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, I help Kitt to reframe her thinking and be open to the pace at which Mike is comfortable, so that he can feel safe and trusting, as well.