27-year-old Marcel started-off on the right foot with 38-year-old Karina, courting her with flowers, chocolates, and daily attention. But that quickly gave way to last-minute plans and inconsistent effort. As Karina tried to assert herself and apply “the rules,” the connection began to unravel. In this episode of Make Him Wonder, I help Karina uncover the deeper dynamic at play between independent, assertive women and those who lead with a softer, more passive energy. If you’ve ever wondered why some women can set strong boundaries and still be deeply pursued—while your boundaries seem to push a man away—this conversation will help you get clear on how to be fully yourself and still get what you deserve, without totally giving in.