43-year-old Rebecca may have wondered what kept her ex, 46-year-old Seamus, from acting on his feelings. Like many men after a breakup, Seamus struggled to make sense of Rebecca’s behavior, leaving him uncertain about how to reopen communication—and choosing inaction instead.  In this episode of Make Him Wonder, we peel back the curtain on how men reach certainty, why time alone doesn’t equal disinterest, and why—when a man wants you back—he eventually acts.