Safeguarding Redefined

What if the way we manage behaviour is quietly working against the thing we care about most - a child's safety?

In this episode, Chris chats with SEMH specialist Heather Lucas to explore one of the most awkward questions in education:
can you manage behaviour and still be someone children feel safe to disclose to?

They unpack the hidden tensions built into many behaviour systems, why punitive approaches damage felt safety, and what really happens when a child is expected to trust the same adult who restrains, sanctions, or suspends them.

Heather takes the conversation deeper, questioning whether splitting the roles is truly the answer or whether the real issue is how we approach behaviour in the first place.

If you’ve ever sensed a mismatch between your behaviour policy and your safeguarding values, this episode will strike a chord and offer a more connected, relational way forward.

Connect with Heather Lucas:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/%F0%9F%8C%B1heather-lucas-6a6aaa319/

Email: [email protected]

Website is coming soon!

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East

Host of this episode: Chris East

Uncertainty is baked into safeguarding, but it doesn’t have to paralyse us. 

In this episode, we dive into how we can reclaim control by focusing on what we can influence. 

We provide practical strategies and real-life examples, this episode shows you how to stay grounded, confident, and effective, even when the unknown looms large.

We’ve also got a simple yet impactful challenge for you - listen in to find out more!

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Some teens don’t fit the mould, and the school system wasn’t built for them.

Enter Oarsome Chance, where kayaks, skiffs, and carpentry workshops are more than activities: they’re lifelines.

This episode is part of our Charity Spotlight week, shining a light on organisations making a real difference for young people.

CEO Paul Napthine shares how his team builds trust, safety, and belonging for young people navigating trauma, neurodiversity, and complex life challenges. 

From breakfast chats to blue‑space adventures, discover what it really takes to give teens a second chance,  and why safeguarding isn’t just a policy, it’s the golden thread through everything they do.

Find out more about Oarsome Chance:

Website: https://www.oarsomechance.org/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/oarsome-chance/

Donate: https://www.oarsomechance.org/get-involved/donate/

Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East

Host of this episode: Chris East

Safeguarding culture can make or break an organisation, yet most people have no real idea how strong theirs actually is.
In this episode, we dig into what truly separates genuine culture from lip service, and why honest reflection might just be the most underrated tool in your safeguarding kit.
And yes, there's a challenge waiting for you at the end - listen in to find out more!

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

What happens when your headteacher is also the DSL… and the culture isn’t just written on paper, it’s actually lived?

In this episode, Chris speaks with Jon Turner about the realities of being both Headteacher and DSL - the leadership strain, the sleepless nights, and the cultural backbone that makes it all possible.

Jon shares:

• how he built a trust-first culture from day one
• why empathy is a leadership strength rather than a soft option, and
• what it feels like to make a referral at 4.30pm… then spend the evening wondering if a child is actually safe.

This is an honest, vulnerable, and deeply human look at safeguarding from the top, and the emotional weight no policy ever prepares you for.

Connect:

Jon Turner - Head of Academy & DSL

KVPA School: https://www.kvpa.org.uk/index.asp

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East

Host of this episode: Chris East

You know that feeling when your brain can’t quite explain it, but your gut already knows?

This episode dives into the instincts we too often dismiss, and why ignoring them could be the biggest safeguarding mistake of all.

We unpack what to do when something feels off, how to record it without concrete evidence, and why speaking it aloud in supervision could be the key that unlocks the truth.

We’ve also got a simple yet impactful challenge for you - listen in to find out more!

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Safeguarding loves a strong policy.
But vulnerable children don’t feel policies, they feel culture.
And if your culture isn’t giving them stability, belonging and safety, nothing else matters.

In this episode, Chris speaks with Dominic Riste, Assistant Headteacher for Pastoral Care and Safeguarding at Woodlands School Basildon, and member of NAPCE – National Association of Pastoral Care in Education.

Dominic lifts the lid on a whole-school model that’s actually changing outcomes for children known to social care.

Not theory. Not posters. Not paperwork.
Real culture. Real consistency. Real change.

You’ll hear:

• what trauma really looks like in school
  
• why consistency beats any intervention
  
• the four pillars of their safeguarding culture
  
• how they kept vulnerable pupils engaged, stable and thriving
  
• why this all matters more than anything else we do

A punchy, hopeful conversation that prioritises culture over compliance.

Connect:

Dominic Riste LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dominic-riste-14982630a/

Woodlands School Basildon: https://www.woodlandsschool.org/

NACPE (National Association of Pastoral Care In Education): https://www.linkedin.com/company/napce-uk/

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East

Host of this episode: Chris East

What happens when someone finally opens up… and isn’t believed, heard, or taken seriously?

That moment of being dismissed can hit harder than the original harm.

Traumatic invalidation doesn’t just hurt, it shapes how people see themselves, trust others, and engage with support.

In this episode, we dig into what invalidation really looks like in safeguarding , how easily it can slip into conversations without us realising, and what we can do to stop it in its tracks.

You’ll hear practical ways to validate emotions, rebuild trust, and create space where people feel genuinely seen and safe.

We’ve also got a simple yet impactful challenge for you - listen in to find out more!

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Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

In our first episode of Collective Insights, Chris teams up with Klaudia from Patronus Safeguarding and Jon from Safeguard-Me, to tackle the questions every DSL wrestles with but rarely speaks about.

They dive into:

• How to confidently close a concern without anything slipping through the cracks, including Klaudia’s four essential checks and why “lessons learned” shouldn’t be an afterthought.

 • What schools should actually be checking when social workers, speakers, contractors, or coaches walk through the door,  whilst Jon busts the big myth about flashing DBS certificates at reception!

• What a real safeguarding culture feels like, not just looks like,  from the front gate to the first five minutes a visitor walks in, as well as why your tone, welcome, and everyday human interactions matter as much as your policies.

• And why safer recruitment starts before anyone even applies (spoiler: your job advert is doing more than you think).

It’s practical, honest, and grounded in real frontline experience.

Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East

Host of this episode: Chris East

What happens when you swap the front line of police investigations for the corridors of a primary school?

For 12 years, Katie James worked in child abuse investigations. Today, she supports children in school, and still sees the same stories unfold.

In this episode, Katie and Chris unpack the unseen side of safeguarding:

• Why what happens after a disclosure matters most

• How to stay objective in the most emotionally charged work imaginable

• The truth about isolation, and how one simple idea rebuilt connection for DSLs across her area

If safeguarding ever feels like a one-person mission, this episode will remind you you’re not alone.

Useful Links: 

• https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you

• To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk 

• Email us at Cornerstone: [email protected]

• Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs: https://calendar.app.google/AGMat9bDsAjPtqMZA

• Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect - https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/cornerstoneconnectsignup - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts. 

• Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/

• Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East

Host of this episode: Chris East