There’s a difference between being alone and actually enjoying your own company.

At some point, you get so comfortable with your own peace that you start wondering… wait, do I like being alone a little TOO much? 😂

In this week’s episode, we talk about finding that balance—enjoying solitude, setting boundaries, listening to what you actually want, and realizing that choosing yourself doesn’t mean shutting everyone else out.

Because sometimes growth looks like saying, “You all can have fun… I’m going back to the room.”

In this episode, we’re talking about surrender—the kind that happens when you finally stop fighting the lesson and start trusting yourself.

We get real about intuition vs. anxiety, romantic relationships, self-love, letting go, and what it means to choose yourself even when it’s hard. We also reflect on the people who fill our lives with genuine love, the importance of community, and the realization that a partner isn’t supposed to complete your life—they’re just one piece of an already beautiful puzzle.

From connecting with our higher selves to healing our younger selves (and maybe trying to opt out of a few life lessons along the way 😂), this episode is a reminder to protect your energy, trust what you feel, and have faith that what’s meant for you will find you.

And if you’re wondering whether you’re asking for too much… maybe you’re finally just asking for what you deserve. ❤️

This episode is a little heavier than usual. We sit down on the anniversary of a father’s passing and have an honest conversation about grief, the ways it changes over time, and what it’s like to carry someone’s memory with you while life keeps moving.

As always, we don’t stay serious forever. Somewhere along the way, the conversation shifts into the random stories, laughs, and everyday chaos that somehow always find us.

If you’ve ever experienced loss, we hope this episode reminds you that you’re not alone. And if you just need to hear two friends talking through life—the hard parts and the silly parts—we’re glad you’re here. 

It's been about a year and a half since we recorded our first episode... and, well, life happened.

In this episode, we share more about why we started Safety Pin #143, what took us so long to get here, and why now felt like the right time to finally hit publish. As always, the conversation takes a few turns—we chat about dealing with unexpected stress (including our AC deciding to quit at the worst possible time), anxiety, trusting life's timing, and finding humor in the chaos.

If you're looking for polished perfection, this probably isn't it. But if you enjoy honest conversations that feel like catching up with old friends, you're in the right place.

In Episode 1 of Safety Pin #143, we're introducing ourselves, sharing how we met, and reflecting on the moments that turned two strangers into best friends. We also talk about manifestation, trusting the journey, and why sometimes the things meant for you show up when you least expect them.

Whether you're here for the laughs, the heartfelt moments, or just looking for company on your commute, welcome. We're so glad you're here.