In the teachings of Ethics of Our Fathers, Hillel presents a profound reflection on the importance of balance in our lives. He poses the thought-provoking question: "If I am not for myself, who will be for me?" This invites us to consider our own needs and well-being as foundational to our ability to support others. Yet, he follows with another crucial point: "And if I am only for myself, what am I?" This challenges us to think about the emptiness of a life solely focused on self-interest. Finally, Hillel urges us to act in the present with, "And if not now, when?" This call to action emphasizes the urgency of living fully and engaging with both ourselves and our community. Embracing this wisdom helps us navigate the complexities of modern life, fostering a richer, more meaningful existence where self-care and communal responsibility coexist beautifully.