This is the full conversation.
Before the series finale aired, Nyomi Banks
sat down with comedian, Air Force veteran and
mental health advocate Sam Ridley III for one
of the most honest interviews ever recorded
on this platform. Nothing cut. Nothing edited.
Every word.
This is the interview that became the
heartbeat of our series finale — Laughing
Through It. But what you hear in this full
version goes deeper and wider than what aired
on the live show.
IN THIS COMPLETE INTERVIEW:
- How Sam and Nyomi first met at an AVN
weekend comedy show — and how they only
saw each other one way until they looked
closer
- Sam's 20 years in the United States
Air Force — and how military culture
shaped how he processed pain
- The car accident that left him with years
of unprocessed trauma he could not name
- His military brother Isaac — the first
person Sam told when he found out he was
going to be a father — who later died by
suicide
- The breakdown at Universal Studios on a
water ride — crying about a car accident
from years before — his family forming a
circle saying "we got him" — and the joke
that came out of it
- How therapy saved his marriage when it
was almost over
- What healing actually looks like — not
the hashtag version. The real version.
- Why Sam deliberately added Black men's
mental health to his comedy — and what
he needs Black men to hear
- Laughter as purpose: "Come to a show
when you are having a hard time getting
to the laughter. I promise you are
leaving with something."
- Maverick — the little boy fighting
neuroblastoma that Sam has been raising
awareness for throughout his national tour
This interview is raw, real, funny, heavy
and ultimately full of hope. It is everything
a conversation about healing should be.
GUEST:
Sam Ridley III — comedian, Air Force veteran,
mental health advocate
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HOST:
Nyomi Banks — Da Goddess of Self Love
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