When you fall for someone, you had a crush on them. It could have been years ago, but they played you like a fiddle. They were scared of you. They would run and hide, and they were afraid to face you, so they would get your friends to tell you what they had to say. Instead of being a man and being brave, you couldn't face me yourself. You would hide behind everyone to feel safe. You would give orders to all of us in the class, but you couldn't face me? How does that work? A woman wants a brave man, who isn't afraid to speak up, not someone who has to get everyone to do the work for him. It's no wonder why your relationships didn't last, and why you had so many arguments. If you dared to say how you felt, you wouldn't be hiding behind everyone else.