Would you go on three dates with three men who don’t fit your usual filters or standards if it could ultimately lead you to the right man?
What if, instead of immediately swiping left, you challenged yourself to step outside your normal dating patterns and see what you might learn? Maybe you discover qualities you never realized you valued. Maybe you confirm exactly why certain things are nonnegotiable. Either way, you learn something.
We already make exceptions when someone is incredibly attractive, successful, tall, fit, or checks some other box that catches our attention. So why not proactively challenge ourselves to look beyond our usual filters?
In this episode, we introduce a three date challenge designed to help you open yourself up to different possibilities, better understand your own preferences, and ultimately become more effective at filtering and dating.
The only thing I can promise is that you’ll learn something. And that just might be the catalyst you need to change the way you date.
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