Same Difference Podcast KE

If you're a heterosexual girl, you have probably always dreamed of one day getting married...probably down to the most intricate detail, because society allows and pre-empts the marriage of heterosexual individuals. What happens when you're in a same sex relationship and these options are not available to you because your country not only refuses to acknowledge your choice, but also criminalises that very choice?

Also, would you give your partner a free pass in marriage? Have you? Let us know!

Modern relationships have expanded the purview of what it means to cheat on someone. It used to be that infidelity was when a person had sex with another person outside of a committed relationship. Nowadays, infidelity includes emotions, finances and even attention - it's no longer considered just physical. On this episode, we discuss whether we've cheated or been cheated on and the impact that has had on us as individuals.

Skinny and Dee have vastly different experiences as women. Heterosexual women who are sexually active will have experienced the side effects of contraception at one point. So how is it possible that Skinny once got a pregnancy scare?? 

Skinny moved between America and Kenya from age 2.

Dee moved to Australia at 19 where she lived for thirteen years.

Neither one of them could have foreseen how life would turn out and that they would eventually find themselves back in Kenya, but with an omnipresent feeling of being neither here nor there - neither fully Kenyan nor fully Western. 

"I had a dream..." was the conversation that literally got us here. Dee and Skinny both entered a podcast competition at the start of the year. They both didn't win. Dee later had a dream of starting a podcast with Skinny and told her. After a brief "ok you Martin Luther King mofo, let's!" Here we are.