San Angelo First by Landon Henry

February 07, 2021 A Life Without Reget

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A LIFE WITHOUT REGRET

2 Samuel 11:1-27 It happened in the spring of the year, at the time when kings

go out to battle, that David sent Joab and his servants with him, and all Israel;

and they destroyed the people of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But David

remained at Jerusalem. 2 Then it happened one evening that David arose from

his bed and walked on the roof of the king’s house. And from the roof he saw a

woman bathing, and the woman was very beautiful to behold. 3 So David sent

and inquired about the woman. And someone said, “Is this not Bathsheba, the

daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?” 4 Then David sent messengers,

and took her; and she came to him, and he lay with her, for she was cleansed

from her impurity; and she returned to her house. 5 And the woman conceived; so

she sent and told David, and said, “I am with child.”

6 Then David sent to Joab, saying, “Send me Uriah the Hittite.” And Joab sent

Uriah to David. 7 When Uriah had come to him, David asked how Joab was

doing, and how the people were doing, and how the war prospered. 8 And David

said to Uriah, “Go down to your house and wash your feet.” So Uriah departed

from the king’s house, and a gift of food from the king followed him. 9 But Uriah

slept at the door of the king’s house with all the servants of his lord, and did not

go down to his house. 10 So when they told David, saying, “Uriah did not go down

to his house,” David said to Uriah, “Did you not come from a journey? Why did

you not go down to your house?”

11 And Uriah said to David, “The ark and Israel and Judah are dwelling in tents,

and my lord Joab and the servants of my lord are encamped in the open fields.

Shall I then go to my house to eat and drink, and to lie with my wife? As you live,

and as your soul lives, I will not do this thing. 12 Then David said to Uriah, “Wait

here today also, and tomorrow I will let you depart.” So Uriah remained in

Jerusalem that day and the next. 13 Now when David called him, he ate and drank

before him; and he made him drunk. And at evening he went out to lie on his bed

with the servants of his lord, but he did not go down to his house.

14 In the morning it happened that David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it by the

hand of Uriah. 15 And he wrote in the letter, saying, “Set Uriah in the forefront of

the hottest battle, and retreat from him, that he may be struck down and die.” 16

So it was, while Joab besieged the city, that he assigned Uriah to a place where

he knew there were valiant men. 17 Then the men of the city came out and fought

with Joab. And some of the people of the servants of David fell; and Uriah the

Hittite died also.

26 When the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah her husband was dead, she mourned

for her husband. 27 And when her mourning was over, David sent and brought her

to his house, and she became his wife and bore him a son. But the thing that

David had done displeased the LORD.

2 Samuel 12:1-7 Then the LORD sent Nathan to David. And he came to him,

and said to him: “There were two men in one city, one rich and the other poor. 2

The rich man had exceedingly many flocks and herds. 3 But the poor man had

nothing, except one little ewe lamb which he had bought and nourished; and it

grew up together with him and with his children. It ate of his own food and drank

from his own cup and lay in his bosom; and it was like a daughter to him. 4 And a

traveler came to the rich man, who refused to take from his own flock and from

his own herd to prepare one for the wayfaring man who had come to him; but he

took the poor man’s lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him.”

5 So David’s anger was greatly aroused against the man, and he said to Nathan,

“As the LORD lives, the man who has done this shall surely die! 6 And he shall

restore fourfold for the lamb, because he did this thing and because he had no

pity.” 7 Then Nathan said to David, “You are the man!

1. GUILT can be a GOOD thing.

2 Corinthians 7:8-10 For even if I made you grieve with my letter, I do not regret

it—though I did regret it, for I see that that letter grieved you, though only for a

while. 9 As it is, I rejoice, not because you were grieved, but because you were

grieved into repenting. For you felt a godly grief, so that you suffered no loss

through us. 10 For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation

without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.

2. REPENTANCE is ALWAYS a good thing.

Mark 6:12 So they went out and proclaimed that people should repent.

Acts 3:19-20 Repent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out,

20 that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord, and that he

may send the Christ appointed for you, Jesus, “times of refreshing may come

from the LORD!

 Repentance is the funnel through which GRACE and

MERCY flows.

 Repentance is two-fold: It’s an internal change of mind that

leads to external change of living.

Amos 5:23-24 “I hate, I despise your feast days, And I do not savor your sacred

assemblies. 22 Though you offer Me burnt offerings and your grain offerings, I will

not accept them, Nor will I regard your fattened peace offerings. 23 Take away

from Me the noise of your songs, For I will not hear the melody of your stringed

instruments. 24 But let justice run down like water, And righteousness like a

mighty stream.

Matt 23:25 Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You

clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-

indulgence.

Matt 23:27 "Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You

are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside

are full of dead men's bones and everything unclean.

3. Repentance and guilt are NOT THE SAME THING.

1 Timothy 1:12-16 I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength,

that he considered me faithful, appointing me to his service. 13 Even though I was

once a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent man, I was shown mercy

because I acted in ignorance and unbelief. 14 The grace of our Lord was poured

out on me abundantly, along with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.

15 Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came

into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the worst. 16 But for that very

reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might

display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him

and receive eternal life.

A Few WORLDLY Remedies for Guilt:

 LEARN from your MISTAKES and grow.

 Turn up the noise to DROWN OUT your guilt.

 Deny your guilt exists and DIVE FURTHER into that which is causing the

guilt.

 Just BLAME others.

Col 2:6 Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him,

1 John 1:9 “If we CONFESS our sin God is faithful and just to forgive us and

cleanse us of all unrighteousness.

2 Tim 2:25 correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant

them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth,

Acts 26:20 …that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in

keeping with their repentance.

Luke 3:8 Bear fruits in keeping with repentance.

Revelation 3:19-20 Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline, so be zealous

and repent. 20 Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice

and opens the door, I will come into him and eat with him, and he with me.

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