⚠️ Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of childhood SA. Please listen with care. Skip if this topic may be activating for you.

In this episode of Midlife Mayhem and Magic, Jodie McLean speaks with Sandie, a gender fluid and disabled change maker, about their journey of coming out in later life, exploring gender identity, and the impact of disability on their sense of self.

Sandie shares their experiences of healing, finding purpose in pain, and the importance of community support. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating identity and the power of embracing one's true self.

Connect with Sandie:

IG:@the_sandie_roberts @shinecollectiveuk www.sandieroberts.com

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Sandie's Journey

02:00 Coming Out in Later Life

08:45 Exploring Gender Identity

16:52 Navigating Relationships and Intimacy

25:39 Living with Disability and Ableism

28:40 The Struggle for Normalcy

31:42 The Collapse of Identity

35:02 The Moment of Realization

39:09 Finding Purpose in Pain

42:29 The Power of Shared Experience

46:53 Bravery in Healing

51:45 Building Community and Support