1. Be kind to everyone everywhere. You don’t know who’s in the room, more importantly it’s for yourself
2. Create dating rules and stick to them (applies to friendships too)
3. Nothing good happens after hours.
4. Romanticize your life, no matter the circumstances
5. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react your perspective is everything
6. What you want someone to be, be that for yourself
7. Reality changes, anything is truly possible
8. You gotta put in the work - opportunities are handed to you just because
9. Potential is just that - potential. Could be wasted or could be powerful
10. Don’t fall for people’s potential
11. Ah but what if it does?
12. You are your worst critic, negative self talk is rooted in insecurities other people planted in you and it’s not real.
13. Identity your thinking brain and your feeling brain
14. Magic happens when you read a good book
15. Don’t be scared of things not lasting. Nothing is promised, after all
16. Do not be scared to be high maintenance. It’s your life and it’s your rules
17. the people around you define who you are. Choose those people wisely
18. I refuse to be in a place or with people where I’m not fully enjoying myself in
19. Who you are now would’ve not been possible with who you were. Forgive your past self and don’t be too harsh on them
20. Don’t say everything you think out loud
21. Take a second to process before you open your mouth
22. Give people the benefit of the doubt
23. Once the doubt has been clarified, decide how you wanna assess it.
24. Remind yourself that your perspective is not everyone’s. Everyone sees things differently
25. Learn to articulate your thoughts for better communication
26. Take care of your body - you only get one.