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- Episode #38: Chapter 10, "Embracing our Emotions"
After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples settle for just getting back to a functional marriage, but not one that's emotionally intimate.
Is it really possible to recover feelings of emotional connection?
Or to create emotional intimacy that never existed before?
Join us as we read Chapter 10 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that empathy and compassion are the gateways to emotional intimacy.
Once we began to see one another's back story and understand why we did what we did, God allowed feelings of empathy and compassion to spring up, taking us toward a level of emotional intimacy we'd never before experienced.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Phil and PriscillaResources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at
Services 3 — Savage Marriage MinistriesOur hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
43 min - Episode #37: Chapter 9, "Spiritual Fuel"
We'd always believed that emotional and sexual intimacy were the keys to a great marriage. But when our marriage broke down after 28 years, we wondered what happened.
Was it possible that there was more to marriage than emotional and sexual intimacy, and we had missed it all these years?
Join us as we read Chapter 9 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that spiritual intimacy with one another was the missing part of our relationship.
Once we began cultivating our spiritual relationship with one another, God began showing up in supernatural ways we had never before experienced.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Phil and PriscillaResources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at
Services 3 — Savage Marriage MinistriesOur hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
42 min - Episode #36: Do You Ever Feel Like You're Just Roommates? Three Things that Transformed our Marriage (and They'll Transform Yours Too!)
We had a lot of ground together after Phil "came clean" seven years ago. Our 28 year marriage was functional, but we still felt like roommates, always wanting more, but settling for less. And we thought everyone else was in the same boat.
But seven years ago, we discovered three things that have made all the difference, and we believe these three things can take you from feeling like roommates, to sensing fulfillment and intimacy again.
Join us as we discuss our journey, and how you can start your own journey of transformation in your marriage.
Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at
Services 3 — Savage Marriage MinistriesJoin the Savage Marriage Community at
Savage Marriage MinistriesBuy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at
Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: BooksBuy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon atSavage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: BooksAnd follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
30 min - Episode #35: Chapter 8, "Unseen Forces in Our Minds"
Have you ever struggled with intruding thoughts that seen to take you hostage, dictating how you will think, feel and act?
Well, we sure did!
Join us as we read Chapter 8 of our award winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll see that not every thought in your mind is yours!
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Phil and PriscillaResources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at
Services 3 — Savage Marriage MinistriesOur hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
46 min - Episode #34: "And then She Threw Your Book Across the Room."
We receive lots of feedback on our book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, and sometimes there are some strong emotional responses, like when someone says their spouse threw our book across the room or out the window.
So, what do we say when we hear reactions like this?
We say, Hallelujah! At least what's been on the inside is coming out!
The first step toward recovery is to show what requires restoration, and the emotional and physical manifestations of inward feelings are clues on where to look for what needs to be healed.
Join us today as we talk about what God can do in the middle of our strong displays of emotion. It's God's road to recovery, and we invite you to join us as we walk through it!
Phil and Priscilla
P.S. - If you've enjoyed our podcast, would you please subscribe and provide a rating? Your comments are helpful for others to find our podcast who may also be looking for healing and restoration in their marriage!
Resources:
Join the Savage Marriage Community at
Savage Marriage MinistriesBuy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at
Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: BooksBuy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon atSavage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: BooksAnd follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
18 min - Episode #33: Chapter 7, "Freedom from Shame"
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 7, "Freedom from Shame," Phil and Priscilla learn that to start the journey forward, they need to take a journey backward...to what happened in their childhood...to their "take it to the grave lists". After addressing the wounds of their past, they begin the awkward conversations with their extended family and see further "ripple effects" of their story...a real miracle of healing.We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and PriscillaResources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, contact them at [email protected]. More details are available on their website at
Services 3 — Savage Marriage MinistriesOur hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
42 min - Episode #32: Chapter 6, "Confessing Secret Sins"
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 6, "Confessing Secret Sins", Phil and Priscilla detail their painful confessions with their five children, with their three adult children describing (in their own voices) their reactions. It's a turning point in their reconciliation, as Priscilla sees Phil do something she never thought he do - humble himself before his children.We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Resources:
Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.
The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
49 min - Episode #31: Chapter 5, "Releasing the Power of Humility"
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 5, Phil describes how he attends 4 Days 2 Freedom and learns how humility is the key to unlocking the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome his past, his addictions, and his self-centeredness. Priscilla describes how she sees her identity in Christ, and both she and Phil turn the corner to a new life, a new relationship and a new marriage.We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Resources:
Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.
The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
47 min - Episode #30: Let's Talk About Masturbation
While talking about porn has become mainstream in many churches, using the "M" word - masturbation - hasn't. Even mentioning it seems to evoke feelings of shame, with many people choosing less offensive words, like "solo sex" or "self-pleasuring".
But masturbation has real effects on our body, soul, and spirit, and realizing freedom from the associated idol of lust is not only possible, but probable for people committed to doing whatever it takes to find help.
Join Phil and Priscilla on this podcast as they talk about how masturbation affected them, and how they now live in freedom.Resources:
Join the Savage Marriage Community at
Savage Marriage MinistriesBuy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at
Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: BooksBuy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon atSavage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: BooksAnd follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
27 min - Episode #29: Chapter 4, Unlocking the Door to Forgiveness (Audio Book)
We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 4, Priscilla describes how her healing began at 4 Days 2 Hope, and how God showed her what it meant to forgive by faith. It was where Priscilla began to see her own journey toward healing, and what God wanted to do, not only in Phil's life, but also in hers. Without this revelation, Phil and Priscilla's path toward reconciliation would have been very different.We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Resources:
Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.
The popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon.
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
37 min
About Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
From the publisher's feed
In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too!
For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.com