Accepting constructive criticism is brutal, but using it to aid you in self reflection and becoming a better you is AWESOME!!! Use this as a catalyst on your road of becoming a perfect version of you, no matter what that looks like to you let’s get it!

What are somethings you find disrespectful in relationships? Let’s talk about it.

Take control of your accessibility. It is not mandatory that you give 24 hour access to yourself to anyone. Stop it already and when you do, do so unapologetically. Now go be great!

Emasculate means to deprive a man of his male role, make a person weaker or less effective. Is this your intention when speaking to your spouse, your lover, your boyfriend, your MAN? I bet it’s not, so STOP IT! Speak life into your relationship and stop beating him down before anyone else gets the chance.

Stop accepting partners who don’t fit the bill. Stand by what you want and go get. Stop settling, you’re awesome and you don’t need to settle. Don’t be scared to have what you want in your life and don’t be scared to be selective. There’s someone for each of us, so if you need to remove people from your life to have who you want and need REMOVE THEM! You will be fine, don’t give up and you’ll know when they awake your whole spirit not just your physical stuff. I will be posting on my blog about getting the partner you want, you can check that out at lorettabruce.com/getting_the_partner_you_want where the discussion will be open. I want to hear about your experiences with getting the partner you want. Also you can leave a verbal comment following the link https://anchor.fm/scatterbrainedtestaments/message or on Spotify you can leave a message. I look forward to hearing from you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/scatterbrainedtestaments/message

I’m talking about boundaries today. I get flack about boundaries all of the time. People don’t like that I set them. I will be posting on my blog about boundaries and how to benefit from them, you can check that out at lorettabruce.com/boundaries where the discussion will be open. I want to hear about your experiences with setting boundaries. Also you can leave a verbal comment following the link https://anchor.fm/scatterbrainedtestaments/message or on Spotify you can leave a message. I look forward to hearing from you.

While sitting my in my car I’ll tell you a story and drop you a little jewel. I hope you get something from it and It’ll be great to hear your opinions. Tell me what you think at https://anchor.fm/scatterbrainedtestaments/message

Do you reflect? Are you intentionally letting to grow and become a better you day by day? Growth is SELFISH. I encourage you to be as selfish as possible and grow in ways no one has imagined you could.

In this episode we’re going to try to find ways to explain where did our femininity go? How can we get it back? How can we encourage our daughters, nieces and grandchildren, cousins, and aunts to grab a hold of their femininity and never let it go.

Dating in my 40’s May be the hardest thing that I have done next to raising children. Let’s talk about it.