Scratching and Surviving

Scratching and Surviving

By Aries Webb-WilliamsSociety & CulturePersonal Journals
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  • I'm back!!! Mindset shifting - Is your mind good ground or nah?

    Welcome back! I guess I should be welcoming myself back LOL. 

    The theme for this season is “Preparation”. I get a lot of questions about, how I was able to go a whole year without a job, and no one really could tell the difference. Maintaining a positive attitude and remaining disciplined, is not something that just happens. It takes preparing your mind for change, for growth. 

    Some ways we can be intentional about moving into a better mindset:

    1. Commit to being more self-aware
    2. Give yourself some grace
    3. Think about what you may need to get rid of
    4. Start educating yourself with books, videos, articles, and/or events, that focus on what you know you need to improve, or want to be exposed to
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      29 min
    6. Babysitting to the Boardroom w/Cydney Peyton Walton

      On this episode I sit down with Cydney Peyton Walton. Cydney is a Marketing Communications executive, in the Virginia/D.C. area.  She and I discuss her career journey, having mentors, diversity and inclusion, negotiation, and many other things. This discussion is framed around her talk, “Babysitting to the Boardroom”.

      Here are the Babysitting to the boardroom 5 points:

      • The Amy Cuddy Effect: Posture makes perfect *Power posing
      • Communication Skills: Arrive prepared but not rehearsed
      • Relentless Optimism: Seeing the bright side in every challenge
      • All the Feels: Empathy as a leadership skill
      • Always be learning: Gaining skills and experience from traditional and unlikely places
      • Connect with Cydney on LinkedIn, https://www.linkedin.com/in/cydneypeytonwalton/

        Instagram: @cydneywrites 

        Twitter: @masterlymarcom

        *I didn’t know when this was recorded, that I would end up hosting an event for Jacqueline Twillie’s book launch, “Don’t leave Money on the Table!”, on Black Women’s Equal Pay Day! If you are in the Dallas area, make sure you come out on August 22nd, to The Riveter. There will be a panel discussion on negotiation (I'll be moderating) and more. Go to blackwomensequalpayday.eventbrite.com for more information and tickets. 

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          Let’s Work Together
          • Host: Aries Webb-Williams www.linkedin.com/in/ariesww
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            1 hr 9 min
          • Worry about yourself!

            In this episode, I cover what I think are fundamental core starting points to true success (in relationships, work, etc):

            Self-Awareness

            • This life is a journey to learn yourself, be honest with what you find out in your discovery process
            • Don’t look at things as good and bad  traits...they just are what they are
            • When you find blind spots or gaps, make note of them and begin your process to work on those things
            • Self-Education

              • Once you discover gaps or areas that need improvement (in work, personal relationships, etc), taking your education in your own hands
              • Ways of self-educating: Reading books, taking courses, going to conferences, attending workshops or trainings
              • No one is going to prioritize your learning if you don’t
              • Personal Responsibility/Accountability 

                • Yes, there will be times were others are definitely to blame for something, but blaming ultimately gets you nowhere
                • You have control of your response, your reactions, your words, etc...We have more power than we give ourselves credit for
                • Look for how YOU’ve contributed to every situation, that’s a great start to authenticity 
                • The more you work on this, the less painful it’s is
                • About Aries

                  Aries Webb-Williams is a Service Delivery and Customer Experience Executive, that empowers quality obsessed teams for technology organizations. She is Founder of, The Service Boutique, LLC, where she helps organizations improve service delivery by coaching teams on process re-engineering, communication best practices and relationship building. The Service Boutique, LLC, also curates Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion programming and events. She is a people protector, advocating for the best experience possible. Aries thrives in situations where teams need to turn a horrible experience positive, driving customer loyalty and success.  Additionally, Aries is the creator and one of the hosts of The BOLD Black Girls Podcast (coming soon)– where they have courageous conversations about the professional and personal advancement of Black Women.

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                    • Host: Aries Webb-Williams www.linkedin.com/in/ariesww
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                      Aries is available as a Keynote Speaker, Presenter, or to Broadcast at your conference LIVE. Email: [email protected]

                      19 min
                    • Conversations with Dad - Father's day edition!

                      WELCOME TO SEASON 2!!!

                      To kick off season 2 of the Scratching and Surviving podcast, I interview my dad, Marvin Webb, on Father's day, about his journey as a father.  He is undeniably the best father in the world!

                      My dad shares his feelings about becoming a father, some of his failures, his proudest parent moments, and his thoughts on being a grandfather, and his advice for other fathers. Enjoy!

                      Apple Podcasts https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-scratching-and-surviving-podcast/id1437088161   Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3sJDWNPmUwUMnUhVrH1yHg   Stitcher https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/aries-webbwilliams/the-scratching-and-surviving-podcast?refid=stpr     Google Play Music https://play.google.com/music/listen?u=0#/ps/Iljjlkhhtbjrgpj62my7h6c2bwe   iHeart Radio https://www.iheart.com/podcast/263-the-scratching-and-30091189/     Thanks for listening! Visit, www.scratchingandsurviving.com/support to find out more about the benefits to becoming a financial supporter of the podcast.  For podcast resources and links, visit: scratchingandsurviving.com/podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, Google Play Music , Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio The Scratching and Surviving Podcast:  Instagram @scratchingandsurviving Twitter @scratchsurvive
                      40 min
                    • Technology Is Making Me Lazy
                      This week I talk about how technology is making me lazy; drive thru-banking and online grocery shopping being prime examples. One thing I'm adamant about, is using LinkedIn to expand my network. Never neglecting the importance of face-to-face interactions.   Thanks for listening! Visit, www.scratchingandsurviving.com/support to find out more about the benefits to becoming a financial supporter of the podcast.    For podcast resources and links, visit: scratchingandsurviving.com/podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, Google Play Music , Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed): https://scratchingandsurviving.libsyn.com/rss Announcements I'll be opening up my power networking group course to about 5-10 people that want to change, rearrange, and upgrade their network.   If that is you, shoot me an email, [email protected] and I'll send you more info! Social Media Info The Scratching and Surviving Podcast:  Instagram @scratchingandsurviving Twitter @scratchsurvive
                      20 min
                    • BHM Wins - Free Rides, The Oscars, Hidden Figures, and The Brown Estate
                      This week I recap some of my Black History month highlights.   A few topics this week: 
                      • Black education and Women in Tech
                      • Lyft
                      • The Oscars
                      • Hidden Figures - NASA
                      • The Brown Estate and Delta Airlines
                        Thanks for listening! Visit, www.scratchingandsurviving.com/support to find out more about the benefits to becoming a financial supporter of the podcast.  For podcast resources and links, visit: scratchingandsurviving.com/podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, Google Play Music , Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed): https://scratchingandsurviving.libsyn.com/rss Announcements If you’re in the DFW area, and would like to support me by coming to any of my speaking engagements, or if you are looking for great networking events, find out where I'll be hanging out here: scratchingandsurviving.com/events Social Media Info The Scratching and Surviving Podcast:  Instagram @scratchingandsurviving Twitter @scratchsurvive  
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                      21 min
                    • Changing The Narrative w/Veleisa Patton Burrell
                      This week we are chatting with Veleisa Patton Burrell, who is the founder and CEO of Narrative Evolution, a marketing communications firm that focuses on cultivating authentic messages and helping clients refine their voice.   We discuss: 
                      • The solopreneur life and lessons learned
                      • The NEED to have a network that knows YOUR abilities
                      • Inclusion and representation in media/communications
                      • Hiring a coach! and more...
                        Connect with Veleisa: www.narrativeevolution.com Instagram: @veleisapburrell Twitter: @veleisap   Thanks for listening! Visit, www.scratchingandsurviving.com/support to find out more about the benefits to becoming a financial supporter of the podcast.  For podcast resources and links, visit: scratchingandsurviving.com/podcast   Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed): https://scratchingandsurviving.libsyn.com/rss Announcements If you’re in the DFW area, and would like to support me by coming to any of my speaking engagements, or if you are looking for great networking events, find out where I'll be hanging out here: scratchingandsurviving.com/events Social Media Info The Scratching and Surviving Podcast:  Instagram @scratchingandsurviving Twitter @scratchsurvive
                      58 min
                    • Getcho Mind Right! w/Alisha Woodall, LPC-S, MA
                      Hey y'all!! This week I have a conversation with Alisha Woodall, Licensed Professional Counselor and founder of Finding the Foundation.  In addition to providing professional counsel, she also speaks on mental health related issues and supervises LPC interns completing their post-graduate internship. Take a listen to our convo about Mental Health and Wellness...   (07:30) Difference in types of therapy
                      (10:00) When to go and what type of therapist you need?
                      (18:10) Does your therapist need to look like you?
                      (29:55) What are signs that a friend may need help?
                      (34:40) How has social media effected our mental health?
                      (42:40) Where to start when looking for a therapist?
                      (46:50) How to know if your therapist is a good fit?   Visit, www.scratchingandsurviving.com/support to find out more about the benefits to becoming a financial supporter of the podcast.    For podcast resources and links, visit: scratchingandsurviving.com/podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, Google Play Music , Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed): https://scratchingandsurviving.libsyn.com/rss Announcements If you’re in the DFW area, and would like to support me by coming to any of my speaking engagements, or if you are looking for great networking events, find out where I'll be hanging out here: scratchingandsurviving.com/events Social Media Info The Scratching and Surviving Podcast: Instagram @scratchingandsurviving Twitter @scratchsurvive
                      50 min
                    • Black History Month! No Fear and No Job!

                      Happy Black history month!! This week I celebrate Black history by highlighting a few (30) Black history facts (some you may not have known). I also discuss fear, how debilitating it can be, and some ways to overcome it so you can live your best life!!! I reveal in this episode that I am now a solopreneur!!

                      Visit, www.scratchingandsurviving.com/support to find out more about the benefits to becoming a financial supporter of the podcast. 

                      For podcast resources and links, visit: scratchingandsurviving.com/podcast

                      Listen on Apple Podcasts, Google Play Music , Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio

                       

                      Announcements

                      If you’re in the DFW area, and would like to support me by coming to any of my speaking engagements, or if you are looking for great networking events, find out where I'll be hanging out here: scratchingandsurviving.com/events

                      Social Media Info

                      The Scratching and Surviving Podcast: Instagram @scratchingandsurviving

                      Twitter @scratchsurvive

                       

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                      54 min
                    • Self-Care Starts With Self

                      Hey y'all!! Let's talk about self-care! It's being discussed more and more, and I'm so glad! We will cover what self-care is, and a few things you can do to start your self-preservation process.

                      “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” 
                      ― Audre Lorde

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                      Check out the website, www.scratchingandsurviving.com

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                      30 min

                    About Scratching and Surviving

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                    The Scratching and Surviving Podcast will serve as a place to discuss "Started From The Bottom Now You're Here" stories, current events, life, career, all things progress.