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Not a class on compliance
No denial or need to comply – it’s necessary!
Seeking motivating attitudes
Propel actions
Meditation and consideration
Husband’s attitudes toward his wife
Rooted in:
Love
Purpose
Service
Steadfastness
Sacrifice
Jesus: the comparison and example (Ephesians 5:25-32)
John 3:13
Luke 9:21
I Timothy 2:5-6 – Jesus gave Himself for us.
Husband’s role
Leader of his family – Ephesians 5:23
Position as head
Implies a following
Who is the best leader?
Great follower
In subjection to:
Government authority – Romans 13:1-5
Family leaders set over us – Luke 2:51
Fellow workers in Christ – I Corinthians 16:15-16; Ephesians 5:21 (Galatians 2:4-5)
Our employers – Titus 2:9-10
Relationships of this life not undone under Christ
Qualities of a good follower
Strives for excellence – I Peter 2:12; Proverbs 31:10
Willing and eager to work – Proverbs 31:13
Ready to help – Proverbs 31:11
Trusted adviser
Assistant, aide
Optimistic toward the future – Proverbs 31:25
Accepts responsibility
Teaches from her experience to others – Titus 2:3-5
Respectful – Ephesians 5:33
Respectful
Has purpose – I Peter 3:1-6
In action (I Peter 3:2)
In attitude (I Peter 3:4)
In speech (I Peter 3:5-6 – direct and indirect)
How is it shown?
Treatment of husband
Treatment of his family
Treatment of other people (reflects on husband)
Doctrinal conflict
Underlying principal – God as ultimate authority
Supersedes all other considerations
Abigail and Nabal – I Samuel 25
Book of Daniel (Daniel 1, 3, 6)
Peter and John – Acts 5:29
Work with authority where able
Sway by behavior – I Peter 3:1-2
Husbands – lead gently
Speaker: Jeremiah 6:13-14; II Timothy 4:1-5
Must speak the truth! Don’t cover up or ignore sin.
See also Galatians 1:6-10.
Listener: Acts 17:11
John 19:28 – The word translated “perfect” is also translated as “accomplished” and “fulfilled.”
We must keep the word in its context.
Matthew 5:43-48 – “Perfect” here means loving everyone.
James 1:2 – Trials bring a state of maturity. This completeness is also a type of perfection.
Hebrews 5:7-9, 14 – Jesus was made perfect. He perfected Himself by carrying out His mission.
Philippians 3:11-16 – Paul wanted to be perfected in the sense of being resurrected. Christians can be perfect today in the sense of spiritual maturity.
Let us live with humility and an understanding that we need God.
The marriage relationship is:
Established in love
Maintained in purpose
Sustained in service
Steadfast in all things
Sealed in sacrifice
A commandment to husbands – Ephesians 5:1-2, 25
What kind of love?
John 3:16
Romans 5:8
I John 4:8
Much like “love your neighbor” from Luke 10:25-37
What purpose?
Similar figure in Revelation 21:2; Colossians 1:21-22
Requires God-ordained leadership – Colossians 3:18
Relationship of one in subjection
Similarity of Christ-church relationship
Importance of respect – Ephesians 5:23
Two-way street
I Peter 3:7 – Compare uses of “honor” in I Peter 2:17.
Leadership is gentle – I Peter 3:7
Leadership is responsibility, not privilege.
Giving of self – Ephesians 5:25
Time
Effort
Resources
Love
Consideration
Respect
Concern
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