Divorce and remarriage
Mark 10:1-9 – Jesus went all the way back to the beginning to explain marriage.Mark 10:10-12 – The laws of marriage work the same way for both husband and wife.Compare Matthew 19:8-9.God’s plan was one man and one woman for life.Jesus re-affirms and re-establishes God’s original plan for marriage and gives God’s present law for mankind.All who are put away for any reason and anyone who has put away a mate for some cause other than fornication cannot remarry with God’s approval – their marriage is adultery!What are people to do who are in such marriages?Some say, “well, they’re married, so it’s okay.”Mark 6:17 – Herod was in an unlawful marriage and was rebuked for it.Some say, “God wouldn’t break up families.”Ezra 9:3 – Ezra was dismayed at the unlawful marriages.Ezra 9:4-15 – They took this seriously!Ezra 10:1-2 – Now there is hope!Ezra 10:3-4 – They put away unlawful wives and children.Ezra 10:11 – It took time, but they did it!Repent or perish!Repentance demands cessation of all sinful deeds and relationships.There are many false doctrines on divorce and remarriage.Alien sinners and marriageDo God’s laws apply only to Christians?The Bible teaches:Men in the world are guilty of specific sins.I Corinthians 5:9-10; 6:9-11We are to reprove the world of specific sins.Ephesians 5:3-13, 11All men are subject to the universal authority of Jesus.Matthew 28:18Ephesians 1:19-23But doesn’t baptism wash away all sins?Baptism does not allow any sinful relationships to be continued or carried over into Christ’s church.Baptism without repentance is NO GOOD. Repentance demands the cessation of all sinful deeds and relationships.Repentance and prayer do the same thing for the Christian (Acts 8:22; I John 1:7-10) that repentance and baptism do for the alien sinner (Acts 2:38 - remission of sins in both cases).ConclusionThe only God-approved “remarriage” whether involving aliens or Christians is when:One remarries after his/her mate has died.One remarries after putting his/her mate away for adultery.All other remarriages are without God’s approval and are adulterous relationships.There are three groups God will join in lawful matrimony:Those who have never been lawfully married.Genesis 2:18-24; Matthew 19:3-9; I Corinthians 7:2Those whose mate has died.I Corinthians 7:3-9 (marriage must be according to God’s law)Those who have put away a mate because of fornication.Matthew 19:9; 5:32