I’ve been actively searching for answers on ways to help my kids. Photophobia is new to me and I need to understand it and why it’s affecting my oldest twin boy. OCD is something I’m learning how manage with my 2nd son. Trying to teach my oldest twin girl what suffering consequences look like. Unfortunately she ends up manipulating the situation to get what she wants. I’ve been learning to stand my ground. Through all this I’ve been neglecting my health! Gotta work on self care!!