Life as an educator and single mom

Time for a mid-year check in to reflect on my first year as an educator and life lessons learned along the way.

I last recorded in January 2021 and took a break to focus on myself and family. I reflect on my growth since then and what challenges that I’m still working on.

It’s 2021! What are your goals for the new year? My goals are to continue with school, continue working on myself, gain more work experience, focus on my kids goals, and some other things in the works. #happynewyear #2021 #newchapter #newbeginnings #newgoals

Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on what we are thankful for. I am thankful for everything I have experienced as it is helping shape me into the person I am becoming. This pandemic has taken a toll on everyone and we’re dealing with it some type of way. How is your mental? It is okay to take a break to regroup and refocus. #confessionsofasinglemom #thankful #newmonthnewblessing #grateful #mentalhealthmatters

Started off my birthday this year physically returning to work, speaking daily affirmations at the beginning of each day, health and growth. I ran into a situation where I would have responded and reacted negatively but I didn’t. I am so proud of myself for that! #chapter43 #workinprogress #growth #confessionsofasinglemom #Iamincontrol

Today is World Mental Health Day! I wanted to speak about how it affects us and what we can do about it. We are all dealing with some type of Mental Health Illness. I suffer from depression, anxiety, panic attacks disorder and PTSD. It has consumed my life several times but I reached out for help. Don’t be ashamed or afraid to seek help for feelings and emotions you cannot explain. #worldmentalhealthday #mentalhealthawareness #depression #PTSD #anxiety

The last few years have been difficult in regards to my daughter being diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, PTSD and depressive disorder.  Regardless of all  the treatment plans in place, we still ended up back at square one.  The struggle of finding a doctor to understand my concerns and offer options of finding the right help for my child was difficult.  Never thought about my daughter having ASD but I had at least two therapist point things out to me to further investigate.  After several referrals and finding a reputable clinic, I had some progress but COVID delayed her evaluation by 4 months.  I didn't feel sad or disappointed when I learned the results but I felt relieved because now I know what she has and how to move forward.  My oldest daughter has Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and now the road to building a better support system for her begins.  Parents please continue to be an advocate for your child because only you know your child well enough.  Don't let anyone tell you otherwise when it comes to treatment, education, etc.  Stay persistent and never give up!!!

These last few weeks have been an eye opener for me. Working on my journey of becoming a better version of myself. I realize that somethings will not be a part of that journey or I have to make some sacrifices. Still dealing with many emotions of returning back to work and my kids returning to school. I have to remain positive and give it to God.