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  • 23 - How basic needs are met in some of the most remote areas of our Diocese

    After a natural disaster, mobile response units deliver basic necessities to victims. But when that same mobile response unit arrives in a rural Virginia town during the week, the need seems just as great. "We don't start distributing the items until 11, and we already have a line of people waiting for us at 10 o'clock," says Cathy Hassinger, Director of Community Services for Catholic Charities, Diocese of Arlington. "And I'm astonished that anyone would wait that long to walk away with nothing more than some dish soap, and a paper towel. They need these items." Learn how Catholic Charities utilizes a disaster response vehicle to help the poor.

    26 min
  • 22 - Obedience in Marriage? Father Paul Scalia Says It's Not What You Think It Is

    During a marriage retreat, Father Paul Scalia says obedience is important in a marriage, but not in the way you might think. It's not a slavish obedience to your spouse…or the crushing of free will, but free will with a destination.

    On Saturday, July 7 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Holy Trinity parish, in Gainesville, Fr. Paul Scalia, Episcopal Vicar for Clergy, hosted a Retreat Day for Married Couples.

    220 couples attended the enriching and reflective day, which included talks, Adoration, confession, spiritual time spent with the spouse, and concluded with Mass.

    Fr. Scalia gave talks on poverty, chastity and obedience (the three evangelical counsels of the consecrated life), and how they exist analogously in marriage. These vows are, of course, typically made by religious in community, though they are present in an analogous way in marriage.

    Obedience: Just as a religious takes a vow of obedience to his provincial, so do husband and wife make a vow to submit to each other (always in their distinctly masculine or feminine way), for the sake of their one flesh union. For husbands, this means being intimately involved, withstanding the temptation to be distant. For wives, this means respecting the headship of the man, foregoing the temptation to be too much in control.

    31 min
  • 19 - Father Paul Scalia Speaks to the Diocesan Retreat Day for Married Couples about Chastity in Marriage

    During a marriage retreat, Father Paul Scalia speaks of chastity as the fulfillment of human sexuality. Hear why he says that, although chastity may seem out of place in the world, the chaste love of husband and wife is a sign of eternal hope for all of us.

    On Saturday, July 7 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Holy Trinity parish, in Gainesville, Fr. Paul Scalia, Episcopal Vicar for Clergy, hosted a Retreat Day for Married Couples.

    220 couples attended the enriching and reflective day, which included talks, Adoration, confession, spiritual time spent with the spouse, and concluded with Mass.

    Fr. Scalia gave talks on poverty, chastity and obedience (the three evangelical counsels of the consecrated life), and how they exist analogously in marriage. These vows are, of course, typically made by religious in community, though they are present in an analogous way in marriage.

    Chastity: For a religious brother or sister, chastity means total abstinence. For the married couple, chastity means a purity of heart and action: married love is total and free, which means that it must be exclusive. Even within this relationship, the deep union between husband and wife must be generous and never self-seeking.

    30 min
  • 17 - Father Paul Scalia Speaks to the Diocesan Retreat Day for Married Couples on Poverty in Marriage

    On Saturday, July 7 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Holy Trinity parish, in Gainesville, Fr. Paul Scalia, Episcopal Vicar for Clergy, hosted a Retreat Day for Married Couples.

    220 couples attended the enriching and reflective day, which included talks, Adoration, confession, spiritual time spent with the spouse, and concluded with Mass.

    Fr. Scalia gave talks on poverty, chastity and obedience (the three evangelical counsels of the consecrated life), and how they exist analogously in marriage. These vows are, of course, typically made by religious in community, though they are present in an analogous way in marriage.

    Poverty: When one marries, one does not just give up a certain pursuit of material things; rather, in marriage, one's very life is opened up, shared with, and indeed given to the other. A spirit of poverty in marriage takes the form of giving up one's own desires for the sake of the common good.

    28 min
  • 16 - An Interview with Gregory McKinney on how Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Arlington is resettling refugees

    They risk persecution in their own country because they help our military overseas. Now, these refugees are here in the states. Find out what Catholic Charities is doing to resettle them.

    Gregory McKinney is the Associate Director of Community Engagement for Migration and Refugees Services of Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia.

    Get involved on Catholic Charities' website at ccda.net.

    25 min

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