Ken Marslew is not a "victim" – he has always had options. When Ken's son Michael was gunned down during a robbery at Pizza Hut in 1994, he used that tragedy to try and make the world a better place – He started an antiviolence movement called "Enough is Enough", he has been criticised for trying to help criminals rehabilitate (including offering his sons killer a job), but he's just a real human being trying to offer people a chance to realise that we all have options, so we shouldn't be too quick to call ourselves "victims."