I thought it was hot and exciting when he said, "let's not tell anyone we're dating." Wrong! Don't ever be anyone's secret, ever. 

I was like a moth to a flame when it came to red flags in my dating life. Game on! Challenge accepted! And it always ended with a crash & burn! 

Stop waiting and wondering where you stand. Flip the power switch and take control of your dating life! 

How is love supposed to come into your life if there is no room for it? You need to make a plan to not have a plan...this will make sense in 30 minutes.  

Why is it when you break up, your ex is suddenly the best version of themself? They're not. It's an illusion. 

If you want this as much as I did, I get how you're feeling! I've been there! I can relate and you are 100% justified in your feelings!

He commands a room, he's charming, he's emotionally unavailable and I had to have him!

Helping him realize that he can't live without you doesn't work. You can't create light bulb moments for him, no matter how hard you try. 

Dating can be easier to navigate if your eyes are open. I choose to date with my eyes shut and my head in the sand for way too long! 

Our married friends constantly ask, "Why can't you just meet someone?" I would if you can tell me where he is! Are they hiding? Is there a secret stash of available men somewhere? Tell me!